Saturday, December 15, 2007

Dreams About Cheating

Dreams about cheating, either being cheated on or cheating yourself, are some of the most commonly reported, and most troubling, dreams there are. Many people take these dreams as prophecies, and accuse their spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating in real life. While these kinds of dreams are sometimes valid, most times they are not.

When a dream of a cheating spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend turns out to be accurate, it does not necessarily mean you are psychic. Rather, it probably means that your unconscious mind picked up on some subtle signals that your conscious mind either overlooked or blocked out.

For instance, things like a sudden change in wardrobe, new cologne or sudden interest in fitness can often signal a cheating spouse. It is possible that your unconcious took note of all these signals during the day, and then used your dream state to send a message.

In most cases, however, a dream about a cheating boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse is not about the spouse at all. Rather, the dream is most likely caused by insecurity, anxiety or guilt on the part of the dreamer.

For instance, dreaming about catching your boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse with another partner probably indicates a deep seated anxiety on your part, either worry about your appearance, doubts about your attractiveness, or just generalized anxiety about the future.

Likewise, dreaming that you are cheating on your spouse or significant other can result from guilt you feel about other issues. In some cases these feelings of guilt are not even related to your relationship.

Rather, the guilt could be the result of anything from cutting corners at work to cheating on a test to being less than honest with family members. Thus the cheating is only a symbol of guilt you already feel, not a prediction that you will be stepping out on your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend.

Dreams about a boyfriend or girlfriend cheating on you tend to be fear based dreams. These dreams do not necessarily represent fear of being cheated on, although those fears can come out in dreams. Instead, the fear could be anything, from fear of failure on a project at work to fear of failing a test at school.

The fear expressed through a boyfriend/girlfriend cheating dream could also be the manifestation of a deep seated childhood fear of abandonment. Children of divorced parents, or children whose parent or parents have died, often express their fear of abandonment through bad dreams, and these dreams can morph into dreams where they are abandoned by a partner or a spouse.

Even though the issues expressed through dreams of cheating and being cheated on are not rooted in the relationship, it is always a good idea to work through the issues that caused the dreams. That is because the issues associated with these kinds of dreams, issues like trust and fear, are important things to work through. Issues with trust, and fear of abandonment can be very damaging to even the strongest relationship.

So whether you are the cheater or the cheatee in your dream, it is important to examine the situations you encounter in your dreams. The situations, places and people encountered while in a dream state often represent real people, places and objects, and learning the connections can allow you to correct the situations that are leading to such feelings of insecurity and anxiety.

74 comments:

bianca said...

What if you have a dream that you cheated on your boyfriend with himself ? I know it sounds a little strange but I had a dream that I was dating my boyfriend twice, as if he had his very own twin both my boyfriend & his "twin" were different in personality , but it was extremely weird . What does that dream mean ?

april said...

was this "twin" the part of your boyfriend you would like him to be? then that would be your answer. You may want your boyfriend to be more like the twin in reality.

Megan said...

I had this same exact dream! I cheated on my boyfriend with himself, but each one had a different personality.

AnyGirl said...

I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend with a girl and I didnt feel guilty because I was about to tell him, you know before I woke up. What the f does that mean, please?

Aaron Pollock said...

I am currently losing my best mate to a new guy he has met and im getting very upset with him. I am now having dreams that my girlfriend is cheating on me with my bestfriend, but the morning i woke up and told her, she mentioned she had a dream the night before about being in bed with my bestfriend. She now has mentioned she has kept dreaming of it and had a dream she was in bed named with my best friend and his new best mate. What do i do and what does this mean? because im feeling very worried.

Ashley Bryant said...

Is your best friend part of both u and ya girlfriend lives maybe y'all both feel y'all are losing him to his new mate so y'all both dreaming about him abandoning y'all rather than him cheating u understand

StrangeLady95 said...

I had a dream that my boyfriend of 14 months, cheated on me with his best friend who is a girl. I've also been having visions of them together, and my boyfriend looks happier while he is dating her. Instead of dating me..

It's been happening for a week now.

Laz said...

This dream was pretty strange. We were at a tailgate and my girl decides to leave with a friend of ours which is also a girl, leaves to another tailgate. I dont see them for rhe duration of the tailgate. I look for them cant find them. So i stop looking and find out where they are the next day. I come to find out they are still at the tailgate at what seems to be a little RV . I go in im furious i fight the guy and whatnot. We leave. I start the whole why did you do that argue with her as the situation calms down i ask did you have sex with him she says yes first says twice and then i ask her again and she doesnt respond . I wake up. Pretty weird dream.

Kerrybear said...

I am pregnant with my fiancé 2ND child and I know of two times he admitted he cheated and I just woke up from a dream of the details of him cheating it was horrible I'm sure it's not true the vividness of the dream I just can't go back to sleep I'm crying and it has been hard for me to deal with him cheating because I do care about him and because we have two kids now I just feel like I'm torn between things and I don't know what to do I keep everything to myself... :"(

rhiannon hutchinson said...

My boyfriend cheated on me and i found out by going through his fone . Now since then every night i have a dream that he cheats on me but he does it infront of me and thinks it's normal. This has been going on for 8wks 7days a week.
What do these dreams mean cause they are having a big affect on me and making me more insecure then ever.

Palmer Daclison said...

Sup guys and gals.. after a dream I had just lastnight, I wanted to know what it could mean and that's what brought me here. I had a dream about my girl and it was not good at all. We were together at a party or something and she was on her phone texting someone. When I asked who she was texting, she just said its her bff. I got closer and she hid her phone from me. A while after her bff appears in the dream and now they're both looking at her texts. Next thing you know some car pulls up and my girl gets up, walks right past me not saying anything, and leaves with some dude, by herself. That's when I woke up feeling so down. Even though she was sleeping right next to me, I couldn't go back to sleep. I feel like this dream is gonna haunt me for a long time.

Nise said...

Everytime I have a dream of my boyfriend cheating on me I always wake up in the middle of the dream. My past couples of dreams of dreams of him cheating have been with one of his coworkers I associate with. What does that mean? Please help.

curious said...

So I had this dream. My bf of 4 years just up and leaves our son and Ito go tour mexico with some guys for 3 months. And I meet a guy (don't know who he is) but when we come anywhere near each other we both feel a pull. And its electric between us. We can't separate from each other. We are very "attracted" to one another and its so intense I can feel a faint pull when I'm awake. Who is this mistery man and what does this all mean...?

Erin Wellington said...

i had a dream that my boyfriend cheated on me while i was home then acted casual, while the girl was still in bed naked so i couldnt go into my room. and he didnt understand why i was upset then he told me he loves me like that would make me feel better then i got angry tried to confront the girl then he stopped me and i woke up

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Motorcity2058 said...

I had a dream once that a hamburger was eating me!!!

dianeee said...

I dreamed that my husband cheated on me with a girl that my ex is dating. I got so mad in my dream that I almost beat her up. So not worth it to beat her up I told my husbsnd but he told me that im dumb that he would not cheat on me.

Alexis Jacques said...

If he is indeed cheating on you, leave his unfaithful ass! He's only going to continue betraying you. You deserve a real husband, and your children deserve a real father.

Dot23 said...

I had a dream that i came home from work, did overtime and he was in the shower with another female about to have sex with her but i walked in the bathroom so everything stopped and i woke up. At that time my boyfriend wasn't home. I called him immediately and told him the dream. His response was "wow". Then says i didn't want to tell u because i was scared of ur reaction but i had a dream, i was about to have sex with some girl.
Funny how we had similar dreams about him cheating. What does this mean? It's killing me.

James said...

I am very happy with my current girl. Its only been about a month. But i have no intentions of ever cheating on her. Im the first guy to go all the way with her and i feel kinda guilty for going so far so fast. But for the past week or so, ive been having dream after dream where i am hooking up with a different girl. (usually younger and someone ive known in the past)
Last night was the first time my GF was in my dream and she went away for the weekend. And i ended up making out with a friend on the stoop right as my girl comes home in the car. She saw it and wouldnt speak to me or look at me for the rest of the dream it was terrible

Kelly Ochoa said...

my boyfriend cheated on me but I forgave him, I still think about it when we argue or when I feel lonely and its been 2 months already almost 3. ive been dreaming of cheating on him with his brother, his favorite brother. what does it mean I cheat with his own brother?

Chelsey said...

I'm pregnant an I keep dreaming my bf is cheating on me with who I think are girls he'd like to look at an some are friends an one was his sister witch is strange but I just don't understand why I keep having dreams like this it makes me so upset I cry an Idk if its just being pregnant or what someone please help me

kiesha said...

I had a dream that a female answered my man's phone laughed and said that she is his woman what does this mean

Regina said...

I have dreamt about my bf cheating on my like 3 to 5 times. And when I wake up I get really upset. In actual life, there was this "cheating" incident. Though I don't know whether is it real or not, since everything I know was based on my bf's side......

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Candace said...

It is most likely because you are pregnant. Not only are there all those hormones but our bodies change so much when we a pregnant. Even if our spouse is very affectionate and validating, we cant help but think 'are they still attracted to me', 'will he still want to be with me after I've had the baby'. These are natural things to think and if your man is a good man, he will stand by you. You are having his child. Your mind is just playing on your insecurities and being pregnant your emotions get away on you a bit be ause of it.
I have two children with my husband and had very similar dreams while pregnant and during the first year of their lives. Being a parent changes your relationship, but it can be for the better. Doesn't have to be a bad thing.

Ryan L Waterman said...

This is really interesting! I've had many dreams where I cheated on my boyfriend. It's a relief to read that the dreams aren't actually about cheating but possibly a larger insecurity. I do have a question for anyone who may be reading as I've gotten mixed responses: If you've dream cheated on your partner, did you tell them about it?

chel fabs said...

I had a dream that my boyfriend cheated on me. but he admit it to me on my dream though I don't know if he's telling the truth. one thing that bother I know the girl that involve. I woke up hearing myself crying

Jessica-Morgan Sankey said...

I've had this dream a few times. My boyfriend of the past has a child with another person. We have none together. Accept in the dream we have two kids a boy that is about 2.5 years old and a baby girl. He leaves me for his previouse girl friend that he had his first daughter with. What does this mean? Also i have had a dream about him leaving me for another girl accept in this dream we have three kids together a boy a girl and a new born baby boy what does this all mean? I am so confused and worried?

Jessica-Morgan Sankey said...

Of the past two years** has a child with his previouse girl friend......

Desiree Turner said...

I BEEN HAVING DREAMS ABOUT MY FDA CHEATING ON ME WITH HER EXES SHE CHEATED ON ME BEFORE BUT I WAS HAVING THE DREAMS BEFORE THAT AN I'M STILL HAVING THE NOW AN I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO

Desiree Turner said...

It's be about my gf

jennifer dean said...

I keep having dreams about my boyfriend cheating on me. In these dreams I know these girls names and what they look like to the detail, but in real life I have never met or seen these girls. what does that mean??

Krisi Hager said...

I had a dream that my man started having another relationship while we were still together and i am raising his son from a previous relationship. He goes about like it's all normal and him and i area still going to get married and he gets this girl pregnant which kills me because i can't have kids anymore i had a hysterectomy when I was 28 because of cancer. I kept waking up and going ok it is over and falling right back asleep where it left off like the torture was on pause. Dreams like this always leave me feeling weird for a while. I wake with relief like i am so glad that it's not real, He is not the cheating type but it still makes me feel very insecure for a day or so. It might not even mean what it was but those feelings of hurt and betrayal linger.

Moises aguilar said...

What does it mean when you have a dream of your cheating on you.. And your crying in your aleepung but it is so strong that your crying real life like i wake up with tears rolling down my face .. i have very intense dreams .. n its putting a toll in our relationship..

bonquiqui niqha said...

I had a dream that my bf was cheating in me in front of me :( what does that mean? I'm a stay at home mom. He works but comes straight home after so there's no reason for me to think he's cheating in real life.

Taya Miller said...

Please help me....I keep having these reoccurring dreams where my boyfriend will cheat on me with girls his step mom introduces him to (she doesn't like me) and then a few nights I had dreams that I was cheating on him with people I didn't even recognize :'( and in my dream AND when I would wake up I had this fear and guilt haunting me :'( I'm happy in my 15 month (1 year 3 months) relationship and I love him more than anything...the only thing I can think could trigger these dreams is because of gas prices and him always having to borrow a relatives vehicle with permission to come see me..I haven't seen him in over a week and I miss him. I'm just tired of feeling so miserable from these dreams.

shit is crazy said...

My dream was i looked in my girls phone and seen a pic/message of another guy. I asked about it and she just said its another part to that message. im not sure what this dream mean

abii murray said...

I have had three dreams all with the same basic outline within a month.

The first one, my boyfriend was in court for sleeping with a minor (15yr old) and to prove he wasn't he had to say where he was on certain nights. Each night he was naming a girl who he was seeing/sleeping with. One of the people he mentioned was someone who he cheated on me with 4 years ago (though this is - as far as I know - the only time he has and we are over it). All the time through he was saying sorry to me.

The second one was random that we was in a shop near where we first met and we finished in the shop and we was walking down the street when he said he had a confession to make. This is when he told me he had been cheating on me.

The third, which was last night, I caught him cheating on me with a girl when I went round to his house.

Could anyone tell me what the meaning could be? Losing sleep over it :(

Daleen Lavallee said...

I've been having the same occurring dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me.
One: He cheated on me with a woman he met online.
Two: He cheated on me with my sister in the next room. When they were done, he looked smug and laughed knowing that I knew.

bri maneri said...

I have been married for 10 years, in the beginning I always had dreams of him cheating on me. since then I've had dreams of me cheating on him. Recently its been with men ive known from my past (even dated prior to him ), even just last night I dream't that I was leaving him and the other guy was leaving his family (and I know the guy from my past)

faithful_girl718 said...

My boyfriend of two years had 3 dreams of me cheating on him but I'm being faithful to him. When he has those dreams he loses trust towards me. Help!

DreamWeaver said...

I am a young adolescent and have recently engaged in a courtship with an alumni from my highschool, who served as an important and dear upperclassman for me. He recently ended a four year relationship with his previous girlfriend claiming, (and I can assume is all true because of how I watched them interact prior to developing romantic feelings towards him), because she was posessive, controlling, and frequently put him down. We have been seeing each other with romantic intent for about 2 months now, although I only accepted his proposal for an official and public relationship one month ago. We have been friends for about three years now, which is also the number of years in our age gap.
I dreamt that we were on a trip together to the woods in an RV, most likely because we often speak of doing so once I become of age and am allowed freedom (I have strict, traditional Mexican parents), and that we engaged in coitus for the first time. The dream me described it as extremely bitter-sweet, constantly feeling fluctuating pain and pleasure, which I myself can not confirm or deny due to lack of inexperience. (He lost his virginity to his previous girlfriend and I am still a virgin, because I am a minor we have agreed not to engage in intercourse in years until I am an adult)
Everything seemed perfect, we were lovey dovey, got along as per usual, and even planned our next trip into the woods. After a day my family came to join us because we had invited them to enjoy the flora and fauna with us, and he began to act strange then on.
I believe that my family is aware of our intimate relationship but can not say whether it is true or not because we have not said anything of us, and he plans to be the one to tell them because of the age difference, but in this dream they seemed completely oblivious to his significance to me. For a while I wandered off for a light jog and decided to check my Facebook on my phone to come across half-nude images of my boyfriend and another girl quite the opposite of me (older, taller, fair light skin, brilliant colored eyes, bodacious; the only thing we had in common was our very short dark hair) which I assume were taken post-sex. Alarmed, I headed back to where we were located to find them snogging by where my parents were, and neither couple seemed bothered.
The dream me was torn and confronted him, identifying the girl as his friend, which I shal dub M, (which made no sense to me, I have met the girl and they are not alike except for the similar colored hair). I told him to choose between us, although I doubted I'd return to him after the event, and suddenly he changed to a different personality.
My boyfriend is a kind, sentimental, slightly jealous but never to the point of doing anything extreme from it, and undoubtedly loyal partner. However, in the dream he grabbed my arm roughly and calmly told me that he would have us both, I for a house-wife and she for his true lover. This is the most unerving part... I pulled out an extremely large meat cleaver that I would not be able to lift in real life out of somewhere and began to chop & slice them up on the spot, and my witnessing family seemed unfazed.
I am very disturbed by how the dream ended, I hugging his mutilated remains and grinning whilst crying.
I have never had such dreams before and am worried. I admit to having abandonment issues, many insecurities that I am not worthy of such a kind & patien partner, and was bullied for having an oriental appearance and being 'unloved' since 5th grade. I am now a Junior in highschool and have few, but very dear, close friends (boyfriend included) whom are all aware of my insecurities and short temper and I love all of them, I know I am not unloved and that it is a fat chance they would leave me.

David Stevenson said...

In a dream my partner told me about a male work colleague she slept with at work. She even told me all the places they had had sex together. What does this mean?

Justine Garcia said...

I had a dream my boyfriend cheated on me with his daughters mom in front of me. But it felt so real. In the dream I was on my monthly cycle and my brakes to my car were messed up and in reality I am on my cycle and my brakes are messed up. What does this mean? I didn't know I was asleep until I woke up. What could this mean? Please help

Samantha Mares said...

So i had a dream that i caught my boyfriend cheating on me. I woke up from that dream then went back to sleep and had a different dream that he was breaking up with me. I had two seperate dreams about him in the same night. What could that mean?

David Medina said...

I had a dream about my girlfriend sleeping with another guy and i caught her and she didn't really care and later on that dream her best friend came and try to cheer me up and at the end we ended up dating what can this mean??????

Jacob l said...

I had a dream me and my girlfiend were chilling on the couch and all of a sudden she answers a call from her best friend and she starts bragging over the phone about her having sex with her brothers friend...right in front of me. She was really getting into details until i had enough and started arguing with her, while i was arguing i was packing my bags. While i was out the door my gf never got off the phone...but when i was walking away she asked me for a kiss....what does this dream mean?

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Cat Rayve said...

My husband and i have been together for 6 years on and off. We had our son in September of last year, and got married in June. Everything has been ok... we bicker on and off. Weve always dealt with issues by talking them out but lately hes stopped talking with me, and hes been drifting away from me. Last night i had a dream that we were at my mothers old house and my husband, me, my brother in law and his baby mama were there. My hubby and i argued and i walked outside for a ciggarette. When i tried to go back in my mother tried to stop me, but i pushed past her. I walked upstairs and saw my husband screwing his nephews mom... he looked at me, and asked if we were still dating... i grabbed my son and began to walk out of the house with my husband following me apologizing. Hes never cheated on me, but idk what this dream could mean. I woke up shaking and crying... and now i have a pit in my stomach that wont go away... anyone have any idea what this could mean?

Megan Guthrie said...

I had a dream that I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend (who's a girl) and i felt so guilty and i told him and he completely ignored me after telling me not to talk to him anymore. Then I woke up and it was really scary. Normally I dream about him cheating on me! Or us breaking up (among many other things of course).

sara said...

I keep having dreams where I catch my husband cheating on me then I hit the other girl. This time I caught him and then we talked and I wanted to know everything that happened between them he just says they kissed and it was a mistake. But I wake up feeling really confused. Normally in my dream I leave him this dream I didnt what could it mean???

Nina Martinez said...

I had a dream last night that my husband who has an extreme addiction to women... slept with his fathers fiance... I'm pregnant and was told my dreams will be more crazy and vivid but i have them every night and its taking over my mind! I cant even look at him especially cause i know what he did in real life.

Thalia Franco said...

I had a strange dream in which my boyfriend was having intercourse with one of his best girl friend and when i caught them they kept at it after that i ran away with my baby in my arms as if didnt know where to go then i saw him with some guy friends and i went to reclaim what had happened i even had proof then he said it wasnt him so we went back and the two where still there my boyfriends i guess twin in this dream was telling me sorry when my actual boyfriend i think was pushing him away i dont understand why this dream.....i had one before of him cheating on me with his ex but i didnt care cause he was with me all the time so there was no way of him cheating but now he has gone to college and my cheating dreams are more often but this one had two of him this is why i dont understand it

Elissa Elissaa said...

Well, i don't know why but last nights i've been dreaming about me cheating on my boyfriend with someone i don't even know. Thi µs night was different. He was about to cheat on me. He study in college so he hires a room. He was helping another girl to move in so he was helping that girl with stuff..standing in his underwear. so strange i was crying and crying because i knew he was going to cheat on me. the strangest part was that the room she was moving n was an old room that looked like my brothers one in our old house where we moved out a year ago.

i hate dreams like this..sometimes it's me cheaing on him and then it's him that's going to cheat on me.

KBeyer07 said...

I had a dream last night that me and my boyfriend were at some party and I went to use the bathroom and when I came back I couldn't find him. I figured he was just mingling so I sat down and started drinking this drink and all of a sudden I felt spaced out, high and just not me. Well I heard some people say that they couldn't believe my boyfriend put some moves in too, I asked them what they meant and they said he was in the bedroom behind me and was just in an orgy. I got off the couch and ran in there and everyone was getting dressed and we made eye contact and I said to him I thought I could count on you, thought I could trust you, thought you actually cared about me, f**k you I'm done and stormed out. I tried to run down the stairs and open the the door but I fell and struggled to reach and turn the knob so he caught up to me and said (3 times) you can't count on me and was right in my face and I couldn't say anything back so I just cried and he walked away from me quite quickly while shaking his head. I than woke up sweating, please someone help me with some kind of explanation for this dream.

Dreamshurtmarriage said...

My husband had an affair about 6 years ago. We got thru it and even had another child. About 2 years ago there was a fire at my work and we were all outside. My husband had the day off and was obviously worried so came to watch my office burning. A guy at my office made a joke as I was walking to my car and I laughed as I walked by. That's it. My husband still has vivid nightmares about me cheating. He acts like they're real and gets so mad at me. 2 years later and we're holding on by a few threads. How do you stop these dreams? I have tried everything

Christian Perea said...

I woke up at 3:20 a.m. I was on a platform I didn't know the area beyond the walls it was within but in the middle was a random table. 4 girls 1 my gf, 2 her sister, 3 my ex, and 4 my cousin.... There were 4 four men but I didn't see their face because I decided that it didn't matter... Each girl (sorry) was giving head to each guy as a own pair... As I show up upon the table I see the girls faces and they all stop as if nothing happened... nobody had spoke one word until I walk up next too my gf cleaning herself up and she's says "eww" like as if she had no emotion towards it like it was nothing.. I woke up maybe 10 seconds after I had been sick of what I had seen... I wanna know why she was the only one that said something. Did she say eww because she was having a dream aswell and maybe experienced something similar. Maybe dreams are connected? Anyways, someone please help me decipher this, I do love her dearly...

Illa said...

I keep having dreams of my girlfriend of 17 months flirting and/or actually cheating right in front of me like she doesnt care, but she doesnt leave me. Seems almost as if she wants me to leave her, but I dont. In my dream its like I dont want to leave her and I try to convince her that what shes doing is wrong, but she doesnt care. Why do i dream of this!!!???

Rod Hank said...

I had a dream (nightmare) that my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me. Two days later he dumped me and told me he cheated on me THE NIGHT I HAD THAT DREAM!!!!

I was absolutely shocked to say the very least.

Dawn Whitmore said...

i have been having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me with all kinds of different girls sometimes i can see there faces other times i cant its been happening for two years now in the dreams he knows i'm standing right there but no matter how much i try to talk to him he won't answer me how is this possible and what does it mean???

acon said...

I have had my share of weird dreams, but this is probably the most "real" one so far. I had a dream that i woke up in mine and bf's bed and turned over to where he usually sleeps, and he was there but with a girl, naked, laying tangled up. I did what i would have done and freaked out asking who she was and why in our bed while i was in it?! she proceeded to tell me i should be sorry and i don't deserve him, then told him everything would be okay. When i asked him more about it he ignored that anything had even happened. HELP!?

Shamel Black said...

Him doing it in front of you could be a symbol for him taking you for granted, or feeling he can walk over you cause you stayed with him. Maybe he's not truly guilty for what he did, and has no regret.

missyloux said...

I had the most real dream ive ever had last night. I dreamt that my boyfriend I have been with for 18 months was cheating on me with a girl he has known for ages. In my dream he had been seeing this girl for 12 months of our relationship and had a baby with her. I met the girl before my boyfriend came home in my dream and when he got home I stormed out... crying he asked whats wrong and I told him to stay away as I knew he had been cheating on me. He then walked back to this girl and I walked back up and pulled him aside and asked him if he wanted to be with me and at this point he pointed to the girl and said I have feelings for her not you... then I woke up. This dream really freaked me out. HELP!!!

Charlie Demarce said...

I had a strange dream; my two brothers, my girlfriend and I are at her fathers appartment (though it doesnt really LOOK like her dads appartment). The dream starts where I'm walking into the living room and I see my girlfriend laying on the couch both sleeping in eachothers arms in undergarments. The part of the dream that upsets me the most is the way I act and its completely outrageous and I fly off the handle. Throwing stuff, swearing, yelling, shoving. Its like I hadn control but I could only sit there and watch me freak out, and never really get a straight answer, though they both try to justify that they did nothing wrong or that its not as it seems, or that they can explain. It has totally ruined my day, only had the dream once this morning

Dezsy Brown said...

I hadwas a dream We were walking from somewhere &' he was like just go home im finna head on Marquette so I went home &' it was like 3 sumn in the morning but like 2 hours later someone told me he cheated so I asked him &' he said yheaa &' I dumped him than he said it was because i am not fun &' was being lazy on my b-day &' made a huge fb status about me than i started crying than ending up killing myself i woke up crying

Christine Hunter said...

My fiance and I have a 2 1/2 year old son and another on the way... In 2011 my fiance kept talking about co workers cheating on their wives in their cars on their break. Then I caught my fiance was getting off to porn in our bathroom with me in the bedroom. He said for a whole year he didnt know why he did it, then just did... Thenhe kept up with his porn routines, I kept forgiving him. But I caught him again a few months ago. He has been acting weird, taking 45 minute showers but not everyday. He comes.home diffrent times from work and when he gets home he is too tired to spend time with my son or i. He never wants to go on dates or out to dinner but he has been sneaking out and eating through out the mornings. And the other night he took along shower with his phone in the bathroom. When I went to shower after him I stepped in something sticky and later I was trying to find his phone to charge it. He hid it. I had a dream this morning that I called him to pick me up. He kept making work excuses. Then he accidently called me and I heard him having sex with another woman in his car and I kept hearing him moan and the car honking. I woke up sooo mad straight from my dream I felt I was going to have an asthma attack. It felt soo real but I cant get over the dream. What does this mean????

matt rios said...

I had dream my fiancee was taking part of an orgy with 2 other people,and i started choking and hitting them. What does this mean? I love my fiancee so much i would necer hurt them ever

Anna Boekelheide said...

I had a dream last night that I cheated on my fiancee with a guy I liked several years ago but never dated. We were fooling around in the shower, but just as we were about to actually have sex, I pushed him away and said "No, I can't do this, I'm engaged, I love someone else!" and started crying. I still feel so guilty even though I know it wasn't real.

Eva Perez said...

Well, yesterday was a rough day for my boyfriend and I. We've been arguing for some time, and I know everytime its always my fault.. even though sometimes its not. I just blame it on me all the time. Well, we were somewhat better later on the night.. but I had this dream where I cheated on him, not with one but 3 guys! I dont remember who were the two, but the other one was a celebrity that doesnt even call my attention? I felt sooo bad when I woke up. But I never desire to cheat in reality. I feel like I should let him know bc I feel guilty. I just dont know what this dream meant.

alex gonzalez said...

I had a dream that my unborn child was not mine. More then once I had this dream. Why?